Saturday, December 11, 2010

‘Child porn’ scholar taught at secondary school: report


report‘Child porn’ scholar taught at secondary school: report





Jonathan Wong-‘Child porn’ scholar taught at secondary school


"An MOE spokesman said he was allowed to teach in Singapore only because “his offence only came to light after he was charged in court in November.”

He added that “neither Jonathan Wong nor his university informed MOE that he had been arrested in March and was under police investigation.”

However, the Ministry admitted that it will now “tighten communication between the ministry and their scholars overseas.”





Experimenting?
Trial and error?
Dress Rehearsal?
Overlooked?
or
The left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing?







Thursday, November 18, 2010

A compilation of Crème de la Crème Quotes by Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld




One reason that so few people that can carry on a rational and agreeable conversation is because virtually everyone puts more attention on what they want to say than they do on listening to what others are saying and answering them [accordingly]. [Even] the most clever and polite people are content with only appearing to be attentive… [but in truth], they are wandering from what is said, and really want to return to what they want to say…
The worst way to persuade or please others is to try thus strongly to please ourselves; and some of the greatest charms we can have in conversation come from listening well and answering well. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



As it is the mark of great minds to say many things in a few words, so it is that of little minds to use many words to say nothing. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



The defects of the mind are like the wounds of the body: no matter how much care we take to heal them, the scars remain, and there is always the danger that they will reopen. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



In all aspects of life, we take on a part and an appearance to seem to be what we wish to be [seen as]—and thus the world is merely composed of actors. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Idiots and lunatics see only their own wit. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



However rare true love is, true friendship is rarer. -Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



We give advice, but we cannot give the wisdom to profit by it. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Most things are praised or condemned only because it is fashionable to praise or condemn them. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld


One may outwit another, but not all the others. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld


We can be more clever than one, but not more clever than all. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



What is commonly called friendship is no more than a partnership; a reciprocal regard for one another's interests, and an exchange of good offices; in a word, a mere traffic, wherein self-love always proposes to be a gainer. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



What seems generosity is often disguised ambition, that despises small to run after greater interests. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



We seldom find people ungrateful so long as we are in a condition to render them service. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



There are certain people fated to be fools; they not only commit follies by choice, but are even constrained to do so by fortune. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld


If we had no faults, we should not take so much pleasure in noting those [faults] of others. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Pride is for the most part the same in everybody—the only difference is in the method and manner of showing it. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Self-interest speaks all sorts of tongues and plays all sorts of characters—even that of self-disinterest. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Self-interest blinds some people, and makes others see. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



The changes in our moods fluctuate even more than fortune [/ chance] does. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Truth does not do as much good in the world as the semblance of truth does evil. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Silence is the safest policy for he who distrusts himself. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



What makes us so changeable in our friendships is that it is difficult to know the qualities of the soul, but it is easy to know those of the mind. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



We can love nothing except what we base on our own selves, and when we prefer our friends to ourselves, we are just following our own taste or pleasure. Nevertheless, it is only by that preference that friendship can be true and perfect. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Those who know their minds do not necessarily know their hearts. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Men and things each have their proper perspective. To judge some of them rightly, it is necessary to see them at near, while to judge others rightly, we must see them at a distance. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



The head cannot play the part of the heart for long. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



It is as easy to unknowingly deceive yourself as [it is] to deceive others. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Nothing is less sincere than the act of asking and giving advice. Although the asker seems to pay attention to the opinion of his friend, in reality he is just plotting to make the friend approve his [the asker’s] own opinion and to make the friend responsible for his [the asker’s] conduct.
The person giving the advice returns the confidence placed in him with a disinterested eagerness… and he is usually guided only by his own interest or reputation. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



The most deceitful people blame deceit in order to use it on some great occasion to promote a certain great self-interest. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



There are different kinds of curiosity: one comes from self-interest, which makes us want to know everything that may be profitable to us; another from pride, which comes from a desire to know what others are ignorant of. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



There are both heroes of evil and heroes of good. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Lucky people are usually bad players when it comes to correcting their faults; they always believe that they are right when chance [/ fortune] backs up their vice or folly. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Some lies are disguised so well to resemble the truth, that we should be poor judges of truth if not to be deceived by them. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



It is more necessary to study men than books. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



Few things are needed to make a wise man happy; nothing can make a fool content; that is why most men are miserable. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



However rare true love is, true friendship is rarer. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



It is easier for a well-trained mind to submit to an ill-trained mind than to guide it. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld



We should often be ashamed of our very best actions if the world only saw the motives that caused them. - Francois duc de La Rochefoucauld

Saturday, November 13, 2010

One Size Does Not Fit All

One Size Does Not Fit All


There is actually no one right way to work with, train or teach an animal or human beings. Any approach that says all animals and humans can be trained using the exact same methods is simply not correct because animals and humans are individuals. Each has a distinct personality as different as one animal from another and as well as one human being from another.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

The powerful bond between human and horse


The powerful bond between human and horse.


Eddie Sweat (Eddie “Shorty” Sweat) Secretariat’s groom, loyal friend, and protector, a skilled and much loved black man of the old South, who had a consuming fatherly passion and dedication to “his” horse had more contact with the horse than anyone and no one understand the horse better. Eddie spent more time with Secretariat than anyone else and understood the horse far better than anyone else. A wildly generous man who could read a horse with his eyes, he shared in little of the financial success or glamour of Secretariat’s wins on the track, but won the heart of Big Red with his soft words and relentless devotion.

“We get a groom’s-eye view of the racing world and the vantage of a man who spent every possible moment with the horse he loved, yet who often basked in the horse’s glory from the sidelines. More than anything else” Lawrence Scanlan The Horse God Built: The Untold Story of Secretariat, the World's Greatest Racehorse. He didn't benefit from Secretariat's great wins. He stayed with it for the horse. This is the story of their bond.

Sweat was delighted to see himself included in the piece and was able to offer more insight into Secretariat's unique personality and conformation.

Eddie and Secretariat from coworkers, jockeys, trainers and owners, all contributing not just to one man’s story, but to a portrait of a powerful bond between human and horse.

When Penny Tweedy Chenery commissioned a statue of Secretariat for the Secretariat Center at the Kentucky Horse Park, she insisted that Eddie Sweat be part of the statue. The relationship between Eddie and the great Champion was so intimate that it was a given, as far as Penny was concerned, that Eddie, too, should be so memorialized.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Everyone's going to say theirs is the best



Everyone's going to say theirs is the best. What else would they say – theirs is second best? Not a chance!

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Spend more time

Spend more time watching the past races, past performances and the barrier trials, there is where the understanding will be learnt and where the knowledge will be gained.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

There is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.


There is no get rich quick scheme, there is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Like any vocation, it takes hard work and luck, and lots of it.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Citation by Larry Foley on 19th August 2010


"If you chasing losses it's not wise to bet. that is my opinion. my selections are there for everyone to see and make your own judgement. no tips here just form." Larry Foley on 19th August 2010

Monday, August 16, 2010

Sure & Certain


As sure as the sun will rise,
Nothing is certain but death and taxes

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Acronym for NATO by Larry Foley



Acronym for NATO by Larry Foley

Never Ask Trainers or Owners

Bro LRT aka CK Guo on "Not Too Late To Know"


Mangocharlie: Not Too Late To Know



Bro LRT aka CK Guo replied:
Bro,

Your citation is indeed many a time warning about something or try to hint at something

but,

Not everybody is able to catch the meaning everytime, sometime they can sometime not or maybe the luck one can and the not so lucky one cannot

I guess

You can save 1,2 maybe 3 or more but you can't save everybody.

Still, its a good effort.


Monday, August 2, 2010

Me and I (sic) and my dog named Boo



Jagan marah dan khwatir!
Me and I (sic) and my dog named Boo have our own acara/rancangan.
Lewat dan langsung Aja!

Kamsia!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

For good or ill


"For good or ill, your conversation is your advertisement. Every time you open your mouth you let men look into your mind. Do they see it well clothed, neat, businesswise?" - Burton Bruce

Monday, July 26, 2010

Tone of voice in the cyber

Tone of voice in the cyber


"Let's not forget that the tone someone thinks they are using is not always what the other person hears. This is a particular problem when conversing in writing. It has caused many misunderstandings." Simon Hicks

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Keep looking eventually you will find it!


If you're looking for something good and special where you're guaranteed anything, where people mean what they say either verbally or in writing do keep looking.

Friday, July 16, 2010

A Different BallGame (a whole new ball game)

Posted by ymchia:
Hi Larry, with your racing knowledge, you the perfect fit-in for Max. TO BE OR NOT, QUEEN NARCISSUS will allow the TRAFALGER LEGACY to continues..... Good luck guys.



Posted by Larry Foley:
just can;t call which is a big issue!!! like the queen.... others each way...



Posted by mangocharlie:
Race calling is a different ball game.



Posted ymchia:
It's true. That why never see Frosty doing it. He is with Kranji for so long. Well never try, we never know. Just like Max's first call. Maybe we see Steve Levar again......ha ha



Posted by mangocharlie:
Prior embarking on the aforesaid Michael Maxworthy has extensive experience in the media. Originally from Sydney, his radio career encompassed stints at 2LT Lithow, 2UE Sydney, 4BC and Radiotab in Brisbane,


Posted by Larry Foley:
yes, calling is something of an art, even a gift, and most have been doing it since they were very young. i struggle to watvh one horse during a race, let alone the whole field. i believe max is hosting the sky world racing (television) from sydney. the show covers international taces (sky 2 for those that have it - i think),

Discipline


Discipline is the product of your upbringing and It's Not Your Fault

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Bragged About How Much Money He Had Made


Bragged About How Much Money He Had Made


Teacher in $130,000 debt over World Cup bets
By MAUREEN KOH


HE was thrilled when Germany beat Australia 4-0 in the Group Stage match at the World Cup last month.

In just under two hours, the first-time bettor made $6,000 - the equivalent of two months' salary for the secondary school teacher.

But by the time Brazil suffered a quarter-final defeat by Holland, John's thrill had turned into shock and fear.

He had chalked up nearly $130,000 losses in bets with three different illegal bookmakers.

The only way for him to pay off his debts was to sell his car.

He started with "small bets between $2,000 and $4,000" for the first two matches, but upped the stakes to as high as $10,000 for each bet.

At his request, we are not using his real name as he risks losing his job.

In the hour-long interview with The New Paper on Sunday earlier this week, John, 28, who has been teaching for two years, pleaded repeatedly: "Please, please don't name the school too.

"I can't afford to lose my job now - my future will be gone."

While he has "deeply regretted" his folly, he admitted: "I realise it's too late."

He added: "I was blinded by greed."

Only his girlfriend, a 26-year-old primary school teacher, knows about his debts.

John said: "I've already let my parents down - I can't hurt them further."

It was his cousin who had introduced him to football betting, he claimed.

John follows the English Premier League and the European Championships.

But he had never placed any bets on the matches, even legally, until last month, when his cousin bragged about how much money he had made in the World Cup four years ago.

John said: "I was tempted, especially since my girlfriend and I were planning to get married next year. My cousin said it was a golden chance for me to make extra cash."

He added: "If not for him, I wouldn't be in this mess."


It was through the same cousin that he managed to open three online accounts with different bookies.

When contacted, his cousin, who wanted to be known only as Mr Low, said: "Look, it's easy to blame someone else when you lose.

"But no one forced him to bet, right?"

He added: "It was (John) who asked me to recommend the other (two) bookies when he could not place bets with the first one."

Mr Low claimed he did not bet at all and had asked another friend for the recommendation.

While John conceded it was his own folly, he blamed tournament favourites such as Italy, France, England and Brazil for his woes.

Just like Beng, the NTU undergraduate who lost more than $8,000 by betting on the hot teams.

In an interview published in The New Paper on Sunday on June 27, Beng said: "Who'd expect these teams to fare so badly in the Group Stage"

"Even when they held on to a draw in some matches, I still lost money because I had given a one-ball or two-ball handicap."

Biggest losers

Most punters prefer betting on tournament favourites and would often concede a handicap. When these teams lose or draw in a game, punters - like John and Beng - turn out to be the biggest losers.

John said that when he defaulted on his payment, he was made to sign IOUs with two bookies.

When he skipped the deadline for his interest payment, John claimed they threatened to turn up at the school.

He said: "That's when I got really worried and decided to confide in my girlfriend."

In a telephone interview, his girlfriend, who wanted to be known only as Annie, said: "I thought (John) was joking but when I realised he was serious, my reaction was, 'Are you mad?"

"I was also furious - we were supposed to travel to Japan during the (June) school holidays but we put it off so that he could watch the games. Then this."

It is only because Annie is certain that John is repentant that she is willing to help him with the debts.

They managed to pool together about $30,000 from their individual savings and with a $9,000 loan that John took from a private moneylender, he managed to settle the account with one bookie.

He has also just been informed that a personal loan of $11,000 with a bank has been approved.

John intends to use the money to return part of his remaining debts.

He has put up his two-year-old Honda Odyssey for sale at $82,000 and hopes to put the nightmare behind him after this.

"It's a hard fall but I've learnt my lesson," said John.

"My advice to everyone out there is simple: You may be excited when you think you're on a winning streak but that excitement is short-lived.

"And when the bubble bursts, you are the one who has to suffer the losses. By then, it can be too late."

Those who bet illegally can be fined up to a $5,000 or jailed for a maximum of six months or both.

Any person who is involved in bookmaking can be fined between $20,000 and $200,000 and jailed for up to five years.






Bookie turns car washer: It's for punters to win

IF you are a punter, you should know that the odds are stacked against you.

There are always more losers than winners. And if it looks like you have a winning streak, it can't go on forever, and you will soon be back among the losers.

But what of the bookies? Aren't they making all the money that their punters are losing?

Sure, they are. Till the long arm of the law reaches them.

That's the story of this man, who cleared his betting debts by becoming a bookie, only to end up in jail.

He is now estranged from his family and survives by washing cars.

Ray (not his real name) agreed to this interview only on condition of anonymity.

He declined to offer more details of his conviction as he did not want to risk offending his former cronies.

"I don't want any trouble - the only reason I'm talking is because I feel punters should realise what they are getting themselves into," he said in a mix of Mandarin and Hokkien.

He had contacted The New Paper on Sunday after reading our series of reports on illegal bookies.

Ray, 53, said: "(Many) Singaporeans bet on everything.

"And when it's some big game like the World Cup, the excitement is multiplied because of the hype."

But according to him, the odds are in favour of the bookmakers by about 80 to 20.

That is what led him to become a bookie.

Ray began betting on football matches in 1990.

He said: "S-League, English Premier League, UEFA Euro - you name it, there was always one competition or another to bet on."

But when the then-contractor started losing money - "first by the hundreds, then in thousands" - things spiralled out of control.

Said Ray: "I had to borrow money from friends, relatives and in the end, I turned to loan sharks."

Finally, unable to pay off his mounting debts, he agreed to become a runner.

With the "up to 5 per cent" commission he earned for every new account he recruited, Ray claimed it didn't take him long to clear his debts.

He also got a percentage cut from the total sum of bets placed.

When the renovation firm he worked in folded, Ray decided to go into illegal bookmaking full-time.

He said: "Anyone can be a bookie - as long as you have a master agent. What you need is a network of gamblers.

"Then you decide if you want to 'fight' or not."

For example, if you arrange to 'fight' 30 per cent, it means that for every $1,000 collected, the main agent will take $700.

Ray added: "Chances are, you will get to keep most of the $300 because nine out of 10 gamblers will lose.

"No matter what happens - even when the market forces shift and the odds change, the ultimate winners are still the bookies."

There are also other forms of commission that bookies earn - all of which, he said, seemed attractive to him at that time.

"The money made up for some of the sleepless nights I'd go through, especially whenever we heard that the police had stepped up action," he added.

But being able to take his wife and two sons on trips overseas - flying business class, no less - "gave me the best excuse to continue with what I was doing", he said.

His family did not know about his activities and found out only when he was arrested.

A few years ago, he was convicted and sentenced to jail for "several months".

Ray said: "My wife was furious and wanted to file for a divorce. My sons, who were in their teens, felt angry and ashamed."

Until today, they have yet to forgive him.

He said: "There's nothing I can do but to accept it and pray for the day they'll forgive me.

"And as long as she has not filed for a divorce, there is still hope."

He had lived well when the money was coming in, but had no savings to fall back on when he came out of jail.

So he has to work as a car-washer at a petrol station in the Western part of Singapore, earning about $900 a month.

Ray has started attending services at the church where his wife and sons go to.

He said: "Aside from the chance to see them, I'm also praying for the day when our faith will bring us back together."

And guess what - he hasn't watched a single match during this World Cup.




This article was first published in The New Paper.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Don't neglect mental disease


Mental illness can strike anyone. It knows no age limit, economic status, race or religion. Mental disorders vary from mild, temporary stress-related disorders to severe and prolonged disorders. About 16 % of the people in Singapore suffer from minor mental disorders.

Mental illness is not a single disease but consists of many different types of diseases. It includes many kinds of mental and emotional disorders that differ in causes, symptoms and treatment. The disease causes mild to severe disturbances in thinking, feeling and behaviour resulting in an inability to cope with life's ordinary demands and routine.

Mental illness can be divided into 2 main groups:
Psychotic illness (major mental illness)
e.g. schizophrenia, manic depressive psychosis and delusional disorder.
People with psychotic illness lose touch with reality and perceive the world differently from others. They may develop delusions i.e. false beliefs of grandeur and persecution and experience hallucinations. They may see, hear, smell, taste and feel things, which are not there. They may be depressed or elated out of proportion to their life circumstances

Non-psychotic illness (minor mental illness)
e.g. anxiety disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder and eating disorder.

The symptoms of the non-psychotic illness are exaggerated forms of normal types of behaviour and feelings. People with non-psychotic illness may feel uncontrollable anxiety, tension, fear and depression. These feelings can cause


Some of the signs and symptoms of mental illness include:

1. confused and unrealistic thinking
2. talking to himself or herself, laughs or cries without good reason
3. talking rapidly and non-stop, jumping from one topic to another
4. prolonged sadness and irritability
5. feelings of extreme highs and lows
6. excessive fears, worries and anxieties
7. social withdrawal
8. dramatic changes in eating or sleeping habits
9. strong feelings of anger
10. delusions or hallucinations
11. inability to cope with daily activities
12. suicidal thoughts
13. numerous unexplained physical complaints
14. denial of obvious problems

Mental illness, like many physical illnesses such as hypertension and diabetes mellitus, cannot be cured but can be treated. Proper care and treatment can reduce and relieve symptoms of mental illness resulting in resumption of normal activities.

The treatment for mental illness usually involved a combination of Medication such as antipsychotics and antidepressants and Counselling or psychotherapy


CGH's Division of Psychological Medicine offers comprehensive psychiatric services. If you wish to book an appointment for psychiatric consultation, please contact their Appointment Centre

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Plain and Simple -


Plain and Simple -

Quan Yifeng is arrogant!
The cabbie retaliate.

For the rest of us. Let’s TCSS.

Enjoy Aja!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Con Hee


Con Hee started out life like most of us, with the same disavantages. But he "cleverly"/"intelligently" found a way to turn the disadvantages into assets.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Plain and Simple


Plain and simple. Like most things in life that create income, it is information. First hand Information we have that others don't. First hand information - Directly from the origin, without intervention or intermediary or a go-between. That's it.

Without knowledge of complex things, it would be insane for you to embark into it.

Friday, June 11, 2010

Believe Me!


People want to believe what they believe because that belief gives them comfort.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Woman won Lambo at RWS! / Auntie won a Lamborghini!

Re: Woman won Lambo at RWS! / Auntie won a Lamborghini!

"After all, when it comes to gambling, everyone knows the old adage — for every winner, there’s a thousand losers."

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Whatsoever Stories


The basic stories are pretty the same as it was years ago. Most of the old stories are re-cast in modern settings and the stories were all based on the same source material. Sometimes the old stories are being looked from new angles and with a new twist. The bottom line, however, is the same old stories.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Sukiyaki













Matthew 7:19 and Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta


Matthew 7:19 - Every tree that doesn’t grow good fruit is cut down, and thrown into the fire.




“Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.” Buddha quotes (Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Without Knowledge


Without knowledge of complex things, it would be insane for you to embark into it.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Thank You Dale Carnegie for this quote

Thank You Dale Carnegie for this quote “When dealing with people, remember I am not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Look Away Dixieland




An American Trilogy

Oh I wish I was in the land of cotton
Old things they are not forgotten
Look away, look away, look away Dixieland

Oh I wish I was in Dixie, away, away
In Dixieland I take my stand to live and die in Dixie

Cause Dixieland, that's where I was born
Early Lord one frosty morning
Look away, look away, look away Dixieland

Glory, glory hallelujah
Glory, glory hallelujah
Glory, glory hallelujah
His truth is marching on

So hush little baby
Don't you cry
You know your daddy's bound to die
But all my trials, Lord will soon be over

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Better Start

Not all humans come from the same type of background and if we are lucky and brought up in a way that empowers us then we would have a better start in life then others.

Friday, April 9, 2010

The Law of Reciprocity



Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.

Do to others as you would have them do to you.

To give and take mutually.

To return in kind or even in another kind or degree.

I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine.

You reap what you sow.

Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.... And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.

For every action, something is expected in return.

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Smile at another person, and he'll probably smile back at you.

Be critical of others, and they'll respond in kind.

As you give, you will receive.

Give generously, and you'll receive in like measure




Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Wet Paint


It's a quirk of human nature that no man can believe a 'wet paint' sign without first sticking his finger in the paint and no man will concede that molten lava from a volcano is hot until he sticks his finger in it and gets burned.

Friday, January 8, 2010

Three things cannot be long hidden


“Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.” - Guatama Buddha (563-483 BC)





“A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.” - Guatama Buddha (563-483 BC)

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Forum etiquette

Forum etiquette means maintaining a standard of posting behavior that is acceptable and appropriate. Forum etiquette can be flexible, according to the subject of the forum, but there are certain standards most people expect others to maintain. Some lines must be drawn for the safety of all posting on the forum.

One of the staunchest rules of forum etiquette is not posting personal information about another poster. Even if that poster has all but drawn a map to his house, posting a real name or address is considered grounds for a permanent ISP ban on most forums. This could compromise someone's safety. This is probably the most serious breach of forum etiquette and most moderators take it very seriously.


You can disagree with someone's opinions, but calling that person an idiot or a profane name is a violation of forum etiquette. Some forums are more liberal about this than others, but keeping it civil is never the wrong thing to do. Posting the same thing over and over again is called scrolling, and is also a banning offense. It is annoying in the extreme and uses up bandwidth, which someone is paying for. It is entirely unnecessary and makes the poster look immature and childish.


Trolls are always in flagrant violation of forum etiquette and enjoy disturbing the peace at any forum where they post. Trolls tend to scroll, call names, gossip about other posters, post things that are deliberately provocative and usually that violate the forum's rules about posting. Most moderators hasten to get them banned as soon as possible, but they can sometimes do a lot of damage before this happens.


Another violation of forum etiquette is posting in ALL CAPS. This is considered shouting and is very rude, in addition to being hard on the eyes. Something may be in caps for emphasis (e.g. I did NOT want to go!), but no post should be entirely in all caps.


Flaming, or deliberate insults or personal rants, is also against forum etiquette. Flaming is often employed by people who are losing arguments on a forum. Their response is to personally insult the poster disagreeing with them, usually in a long, nasty post.


This kind of behavior is why so many forums have a list of posting rules and consequences for breaking them. Some may say this behavior is more prominent among immature teens, but that is in no way the case. Many of the worst offenders are adults who should know better. The veil of anonymity seems to bring out the worst in these people, and any bullying tendencies they have tend to become magnified in the semi-protection of an anonymous forum.



Most of the rest of forum etiquette involves using the Golden Rule: treat others as you would like to be treated. Behaving as a reasonable adult, even in the face of being flamed, is always the best course of action. If a poster becomes harassing, obscene or personal, do not retaliate. Instead, cut and paste the offensive post(s) into an e-mail and quickly report it to the moderator or forum administrator.



still surfing the internet

still surfing the internet hopefully i can find the holy grail on the best method to bet on horses